a Power of Words

It happens, you observe or experience the situation of a conflict in between 2 or more people. Myself I have been to such situations as well. When you throw angry glances to someone, or say words which are painful to another person. For some years ago, very often, I didn't think about the consequences of such said words or glances. I just didn't care so much. A very egoistic, actually, I might say. Than, for couple years ago, I have got a very sharp conflict with a very good and close friend of mine. It had roots in misunderstanding, as it came out later. As sometimes i am a very impulsive person, so it happened that time, word by word it quickly was coming close to bombastic explosure. I am a very thankful to that friend of mine. Because that moment he said - Stop! 1-2-3 and you Stop! And we forget all these words we have said a minute ago, and try to find out the actual reason for that standing here and screaming to each other like mad. It functioned that time. I will not go long and describe what this conflict was all about, actually about a very silly thing, and a misunderstanding. We found it out. That moment I was close to cry, because I reali3ed the power of words, glances, - can be so huge. I reali3ed that I could simply lose a friend after this 'word war' which is actually a 'war with ourselves' while trying to ignore attempts of other involved part to explain the situation, or non-acceptance, or not being able to forgive, or egoism, or pride.

So i wrote this:

One word can bring you down
One word can break your heart
One word can lift you up
One word can set you free
One word can break the chains
One word can make you happy
One word can heal your mind
One word can give you a chance
One word can melt the ice
One word can save the time
One word can change a whole life.


Also i may say - i think it is a very important part - to be able to express your feelings and your thoughts into words. It can make one's and your's life easier, or at list the situation will be more clear.

a Discovery

Recently, I thought - what is a Life to me?
What does it mean to me, and how I can describe it in short, without writing a long, long essay, in many chapters...i could write a whole book on it..but at the moment - I do not want, I just want to express it in short and exactly as I feel, see, experience it. I didn't want to analyse so much while writing it. I just relaxed, feeling totally peaceful, without any mental noise. And just wanted to write what is the most important. It came to:

Life is a wonder,
Life is a short,
Life is a water,
Life is a green,
Life is Love,
and life is a smile
Life is a flower
a beautiful one.


What is your life to you ?

Questions and Answers

Being honest with yourself ... is something of a very high importance, if you want to be succeed with your life.
There are always questions in everyday life, which you need or want to answer - questions to yourself, questions of others to you...i think it is a very important take a look into yourself, before answering - at list you can find a honest answer to yourself for this.

By my experience, some people are afraid of this phrase 'I don't want to answer this question at the moment' or 'I prefer not to answer this question at the moment' - i think there is no reason to be afraid and to use these phrases, if you do not feel like you can, want, are ready to answer the question.

Once, I was afraid of these phrases too.
For some years ago, if someone would ask me a question, and I would not want to answer, I would just stay quiet, without saying anything at all...
Later I have analysed such a behaviour, and i thought it can lead to many wrong interpretations and people can understand you the way, which you don't really mean. I concluded, it is good to have an open communication and say things openly and defined. Take a second and listen to yourself, if you feel like you are not ready to answer this question right now, or you do not want to answer this question right now, say about it.
It is an important to communicate, to give a message, so the second part will know - you do not refuse to communicate and do not ignore, you just might need some time before you can speak about this particular case openly.
I think such communication can lead to less interpersonal conflicts and misunderstandings.

'Why?' which makes me cross the oceans of indifference and walk the water of coldness

Life always brings us ups and downs. Incredible how unexpectable it can be!
I learnt to never give up, even if sometimes you can be very close to it!
Also with projects for your life - it can take so long time, and lots of patience and ability to stand on and continiue..
I wish you patience, and never never give up!

There is always Why. Why you do that or this..i think this Why is something incredible what can really move the things on and for 360 degrees.